A simple divorce, is it possible? Divorce should never be entered into lightly. The ramifications of divorce may be far greater than people realize. Of course, the most important negative impact will be on any children involved in the divorce. It is not just children resulting from the union, but children already in the lives of either party prior to the nuptials, as well.
Financially speaking, if people are accustomed to a double income, they should prepare for substantial lifestyle changes. Even if no children are involved, animals can be just as upset by a separation and act out as any child might. If a divorce was the course of action rather than reconciliation, when a person comes home from a terrible day at work, or they witnessed something hilarious to share with their significant other, the divorced partner will not be there to share in a bad day or joyous occasions. It is important to think of everything prior to making that final decision.
The best thing you can do is make sure you are preparing for divorce if you think that a divorce is in your imminent future.
Can You Choose A Simple Divorce?
If, in the end, a person chooses a simple divorce, many options exist to make the experience as painless as possible. The first option is a no-fault divorce. A person must state a reason for the divorce such as “irreconcilable differences,” “incompatibility,” or “irremediable breakdown of the marriage.” A fault divorce is where the person filing for divorce claims the significant other did something wrong in the marriage, and they must prove it. A fault divorce is far more timely and costly. All states allow no-fault divorces; however, some require a period of time in which the couple must live apart prior to the allowance of a no-fault divorce. This period could be months or years, depending upon the state. This is also known as an uncontested divorce which is the easiest to get done if your situation allows you to go that route.
Types of Simple Divorce
A no contest divorce, also referred to as an uncontested divorce, will also save time, money, and headaches. This is also a type of simple divorce. Agreement is the key to a no contest divorce. Both parties must agree on everything in order to fully utilize this, the simplest, procedure. In order to continue, both parties must agree upon division of property, including the home itself, financial investments, bank accounts, automobiles, and pets. If spousal support is required, this too must be pre-determined and agreed upon. It will be no different if children are involved. Custody agreements must be in agreement, including holidays, weekends, child support, and special occasions. This is merely an overview of what may be involved in a couple’s no contest divorce. It is important to review one’s personal circumstance, and think of everything that may be an issue in the future to prevent further disagreements.
If the divorcing party is less likely to communicate reasonably and rationally, but rather with passion and vigor; investing in divorce mediation is another method of a simple divorce. One will not be required to retain legal representation. If one chooses to bring an attorney, it is allowed; however, it is not required. The couple will sit down with a neutral third party to discuss the separation of assets. The benefits will be apparent immediately. The divorce will take less time and money than an adversarial divorce, and the couple remains in control of their divorce rather than the lawyers.
One of the very important aspects is learning how to cope with divorce since divorce can be a very emotional and draining time for you.
Prior to filing for a simple divorce you might want to start considering reconciliation which is always best when possible, although it is not always possible when emotions are running high. But when possible, especially if reconciliation is not possible, a simple divorce is the easiest way to go by far. Just make double-sure that a simple divorce is what is going to work out best for you after all is said and done.
